"Turning A Friend Into A LOVER"

>>> Question From Adrian, Vancouver CA:

Hi Simon. I love your program and I've been amazed by your
solutions for guys who want to achieve "bulletproof game." Now
I have a question for you.

I am 36 years old and I'm single again after ending a
long-term relationship. The woman I was dating was my age,
and like most women that age who are unmarried and don't
have kids, she was eager to tie the knot with me and start
having babies.

Well, I'm not ready for that. And I'd prefer to have a
younger girlfriend who is sexy, fun to be around, and doesn't
have all the "baggage" of a chick my age.

So, I met this total hottie a few months ago. She's 26 years
old. (Perfect.) I was taking some courses at the local
community college and she was in one of my classes...

We always talked after class, and we met a few times at the
campus library to study together.

I was growing to really like her, but it was hard to
understand what she wanted. Sometimes she acted very flirty
towards me, and other times she acted cold and distant. She
would sometimes call me twice a day to chat, and then she
would stop calling me and wouldn't return my calls
for a few days.

I asked her many times to go on a date with me. Once, she
agreed to meet me for lunch, but then she called me at the
last minute and cancelled.

Our class ended three weeks ago. Now she will not answer
my phone calls but we communicate with text messages. She
confessed to me that she is still hurting from breaking up
with her ex-boyfriend John. She says she loves me as a
friend and our friendship is very important to her, but
she isn't ready for another serious relationship.

When I try to get her to meet me, she always has an excuse.

I know she cares about me and if she just wants to be
friends, that's okay. But I need to know if I have a chance
of making her my girlfriend.

I hope you have some "bulletproof" advice for me!


>>> My Comments:

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Got it?

Great, now on to your question...

You, my friend, have wound up in the Friend Zone. This is
a common situation with men who are trying to follow the
"normal" rules with women. (In other words, being nice,
sweet, respectful, and following her lead... )

Because let's be honest. Is any guy ever satisfied
having a female "friend" to talk to, when what he really
wants from her is sex?

Of course not.

And it's only a matter of time before she meets some
other guy who DOES make her feel sexually attracted, and
once they start hooking up she'll no longer
have any need to hang out with you.

And do you really need female friends to talk to and share
your problems with?

No.

You've got your buddies to fill that role in your life,
and they can relate to you much better than a chick that
makes you feel depressed and sexually frustrated.

So let me give you my Top 6 tips for busting out of the
Friend Zone and getting women sexually interested in you...

1. Limit your availability. I'm willing to bet that
whenever this girl does call you, you eagerly answer the
phone and chat with her for as long as she wants.

You THINK that when you spend two hours on the phone
with her, sharing your life stories and telling her about
the girl who broke your heart when you were in the tenth
grade, you're building some kind of deep "connection"
with her.

But what you're actually doing is removing ANY sense of
mystery about yourself, and letting her know that you
have nothing else going in your life... and no other
women. This is massively UN-attractive to her.

(I know that when you're a man who is struggling with his
dating life, and haven't hooked up with a chick in a while,
this takes a LOT of discipline. Your instinct is to make
yourself totally available to her and try to spend as
much time as possible with her. Well, go ahead and keep
doing it this way, if you want to keep wondering why women
lose interest in you... )

2. Until you've slept with a woman, limit your phone
chats with her to five minutes. And don't get caught up
in constant text-messaging. Give her the sense that you're
a busy man with places to be.

Use these short phone calls, or text exchanges, to lock
down your plans to see her again. Save the deep
conversations for when you are actually spending
time with her.

3. Women are moody and emotional. Get used to it, and
know how to deal with it. When she start acting weird or
distant, she is testing you. She wants to see how
you will respond.

Do you kiss her ass and ask her "what's wrong?" Do you
get frustrated and angered by her behavior? (Either of
these responses will only make her get more moody!)

Or, do you behave like a firm, direct MAN? (Tell her,
"Well, I can tell you've got some things on your mind
right now, so why don't you take some time to sort
it out and get back to me. I've got some things I need
to handle right now.")

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4. Her ex-boyfriend is irrelevant. Women commonly use
the excuse, "I got out of a bad relationship recently,
I don't know if I'm ready for someone new, I don't want to
get hurt again," etc. It's all crap, basically. The
truth is, if she met a confident, attractive man RIGHT
NOW who made her feel a sexual connection, she'd forget
about her ex-boyfriend in about 2.3 seconds.

TRUST ME on this ;)

When she talks about her ex, and how she's "not ready,"
what she really means is that you're not making her feel
attraction, and so she's testing you to see what kind of
man you are.

You need to put her in a positive, fun state of mind
and keep her there. When she thinks of you, she should
think of fun times and feeling good about herself.

The last thing you want to do is allow her to dwell
on her ex-boyfriend and be her "shoulder to cry on."

If she ever mentions him, change the subject.

And never refer to him by name because it only
aggravates her emotional state. (Instead, refer to him as
"that guy." Make him seem irrelevant and insignificant.)

HER: "I guess I'm just in a bad mood today because it
would have been my third anniversary with my ex, John..."

YOU: "Well it sounds like that guy didn't appreciate you
the way he should have, and it's his loss. I'm just glad
we're getting to know each other, because I can tell
there's a lot more to you than meets the eye. So tell
me more about ________"

(Change the subject onto something that gets her in a
positive, talkative mood).

5. Never confess your attraction to her. Women interpret
this as a sign of weakness. You've been taught by the
media that woman want a soft, sensitive guy who isn't
afraid to confess his feelings. Actually, the
opposite is true. She needs to know you are a strong,
emotionally secure and confident MAN.

Once you've got a sexual relationship going with her,
and she's bonded to you, feel free to be a sweet, loving
boyfriend and do all of the romantic things that drive
her wild. But until then, you've got to play it cool.

6. Finally, be willing to "man up" and walk away. If for
whatever reason she just can't sort out her feelings,
cut her loose. Trust me, if you were involved with two or
three OTHER women right now, you wouldn't have the time
or the interest to play games with some chick who can't
make up her mind.

When you have multiple options, you will ALWAYS feel
confident and in control.

Don't make the mistake that most guys make, and place
"all of your eggs in one basket."

Once a woman has mentally placed you in "The Friend Zone,"
it's difficult to change her feelings towards you. Ideally,
you never want to her to view you as her platonic, non-sexual
"buddy" in the first place. This is why when you do meet up
with women for a date, you've got to take things in a
sexual direction.

This doesn't mean you have to sleep with women on the
first date. But you MUST establish some physical contact
and make her feel that you're a sexual possibility for her.

That's the difference between guys who always suffer in
the "Friend Zone," and guys who GET IT DONE with younger
women. 

My point is this:

If you don't make any "moves", don't try to kiss her, and
don't confidently lead in a physical way, a woman will
only think of you as a "friend".

Even if there is attraction based on personality, it's going
to disappear if you don't cross over into the physical realm.

99% of the time, she's NOT going to be the one to make the
first move... it's just not going to happen.

YOU have to do it.

    As you can see, there's nothing trickier, more fragile
than turning a friend to a lover, and if you want to get it
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Women change their minds faster than they change bras. If
you want to be IN CONTROL of their minds, if you want them
to respond EXACTLY the way you want them do WHENEVER you
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When you're done with it, flirting with girls will feel like
you're playing an easy level on a video game that you've
already beaten.

You will be FLUENT with women...

And that's when YOU become the guy that makes other
guys say, "What's HIS secret?" :)

Talk to you soon.

Your Friend,

Simon H



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