How To Make Younger Women Chase YOU

Hi John,

"Does he REALLY like me... or is he just playing games, like he
does with ALL his girls?"

This is what should be running through her head while you tease
and flirt with her. It makes her want to keep playing the game.

Whenever she's with a guy like this, she'll want to look her
best, and act her sexiest, in order to get the confirmation
she craves.

The key is to NEVER give her total confirmation.

When a woman is attracted to you, she desperately wants to know
if the feeling is mutual! (Remember what I told you earlier,
about how men and women judge "success.")

You can work women into a frenzy this way...by NEVER letting the
girl know that she's "won."

For this reason, you must never tell her how long you've wanted
to ask her out, admit how attracted you are to her, or tell her
how you think the two of you would be "great together."

If these sound like winning romantic gestures, turn off your
television, because you've been watching too many Hollywood
movies.

Only in the movies can the dork or the shy guy win over the
hottest girl in school in the end because he makes some grand,
romantic declaration.

In reality, it's more likely that she'll regard this as
weakness on your part. (And remember how I said emotional
STRENGTH is one of the big keys to attraction.) 

Nine times out of ten, your "confession" isn't going to prompt
her to confess her own attraction to you. It will only take you
down a notch in her eyes. You are no longer an original; you
are just another guy who can't control his emotions or his
libido.

Play it cool and act like nothing fazes you.

You're a train moving full-steam ahead.

The choice is hers:

She can climb onboard and take an exciting ride, or you can
roll without her to the next stop. Either way, you're an
independent guy, doing your own thing.

Another advantage of using the Tactics I teach is that if you
use the right conversational techniques and "build the bridge"
(as I explain in detail in the "Ultimate Edition" book here):

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it will become clear whether she is interested in you on a
sexual level.

You won't be shooting in the dark, worrying that she'll freak
out if you try to touch her.

When you follow the correct progression of steps, escalating
from conversation to physical touching, you'll never have to
wonder whether she "likes you as a friend" or whether she's
interested in more.

You'll know how to read her signals, and your Tactics will be
gently leading her down the path to "yes"...instead of giving
her reasons to say "oh, look at the time...I should be getting
home soon."   
   
Evaporate the physical boundaries between you by making body
contact with her. The best times to do so are when you're both
laughing.

Reach over and give her a knee a light touch. High-five her and
interlace your fingers with her, then disengage.

What you're doing is acclimating her to your touch, so that
it becomes something she is comfortable with. This way, later
in the night when you hold her hand, kiss her for the first
time, or initiate the foreplay that leads to sex, she's already
"warmed up" to your touch.
   

Guys will often fail to escalate because they don't want to be
seen as too aggressive. (It's just an excuse, really, for not
wanting to risk rejection--and they're not confident that she
will agree to the escalation, because they haven't laid the
right groundwork.) 

If you've laid the groundwork, made her physically comfortable
with you, and built up her attraction by framing yourself as a
hard-to-get "prize," she'll be receptive when you take things
to the next level. But it's on you to lead her there.

I remember one time having a girl sleep over at my house, in
my bed, and I didn't "try anything" because I didn't want to
screw it up. We lay there together and talked for hours, then
she drifted off to sleep while I laid next to her all night
with a hard-on.

I figured there was no hurry, and that if I acted like a
gentleman she'd trust me and we'd have sex next time.

Unfortunately, there was no "next time."  She never called me
again. By not escalating with her, she viewed me as a Wuss,
and she may have even felt a little bit insulted.

She's an intelligent, sexually experienced adult.

She knew what was supposed to follow when she willingly climbed
into my bed and laid down next to me. But I failed to lead her
down that path. 

The key is to BUILD UP to intimacy and sex with a progression
of steps. Perhaps the biggest mistake that guys make is trying
to seduce women before the groundwork has been laid.

You don't ask a girl out on a date before you've spent time
chatting with her and getting her interested in you. Likewise,
you shouldn't go for a kiss when you haven't even laid a finger
on her all night.

You build up to the first kiss by making contact with her
throughout the evening: touching her leg while you tell a story;
giving her a brief hand massage; brushing her hair back from her
eyes; placing your hand on the small of her back as you guide
her through a door...etc.

(The small of her back is actually a GREAT spot to make contact
with. It's an erogenous zone that is dense with nerve endings.)

If there is a mutual attraction, let her be the one to express
her feelings to YOU, and when she does, play it even more cool.
If she says something that implies she likes you and wants to
date you, give a vague response that strings her along.

   
HER: "So what you do you think...y'know, about you and me?"

YOU:  "I've enjoyed spending time with you. Let's just take it
slow and see where it goes...no pressure, no expectations."

(The more you seem like you don't really give a shit either way,
the more DESPERATELY she'll want you to validate her feelings!)

But don't give her that validation. Keep her wondering: will
she ever be able to have you all for herself, or will you be
with another girl tomorrow when she's waiting for your phone
call?
   
She'll want to keep earning points with you, to get the
confirmation that she desires. In the meantime, you are the
one holding the cards.

And if you're ready for an IN-DEPTH education on everything
from overcoming fear, approaching younger women... to getting
numbers and dates AND taking things with them to a "physical
level", then you MUST get your hands on a copy of this:

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It's JAM PACKED with over 11+ full hours of digitally recorded
concepts, strategies, and specific techniques to ensure you
get ANY younger woman you want... and more.

I get emails all the time from guys who are listening to the
program two, three, and even five or MORE times because there's
just so much information packed into it.

You'll not only hear me teaching my personal techniques and
secrets, but you'll ALSO learn from some of the WORLD'S BEST
with women... and getting them to reveal THEIR secrets
as well.

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Oh by the way, here's a lil something you might want to know...

See, having a super hot woman (esp dancers, strippers, models, etc)
used to only be a DREAM for most guys as these women are in a
league of their own.

Their hot, in-demand and are ALWAYS wooed by men (one way or
another), why would they want you if you're not rich or super
good looking?

Well, the good news is that I finally figured out the "trick" to
make these 'types' of women feel to feel ATTRACTION... and
once I did, my WHOLE WORLD changed...

... and I want YOU to feel the difference too!

The bottom line is that if you'd like to learn the secret of how
to create ATTRACTION with the super-hot 9s and 10s, then you need
to go and check this out... and make sure to watch the video clip
right at the bottom:

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I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

Simon H



Instant Dating Resources
Smart Central, Suite E-10-06
Plaza Mon't Kiara
PO Box 50480, KL
MY

Three steps To Getting ANY Younger Woman You Want

Hi John,

Your success with younger women is not dependent on how old
you are, or how large the gap is. The approach you use for a
woman your age will also work for someone younger--with a few
minor tweaks.

It really comes down to three things:

1. The image you present to the world.
2. The beliefs/thoughts you have running around in your head,
   your mindset.
3. Your selection criteria (ie how you select who you're going
   to approach)

Those are the same three things you'd focus on if there weren't
any age gap. Only the variables within each group change a
little.

Women are women; the psychology of a woman doesn't change with
age. Only her focus does.   

1. Your Image

When I talk about your image, I don't mean the way you dress
(though that is an element of it). The image we're concerned
with is the one that she forms based on your external appearance,
your way of moving through the world, how you carry yourself,
what you say, how you interact with others, etc.

You want to be in total control of the kind of person she
thinks you are. Women don't just go for what's on the surface.

She's asking herself "what kind of person is he on the inside?"

The answer that you should have ready for her should be
something that overpowers any resistance to your age, looks,
height, weight, or anything else that is outside her normal
"type."

Women go for men who have what she wants.

That's really what it boils down to: Do you have what she
wants?

Sure, some of them want you to be Brad Pitt (who is over 40,
by the way. But, he's perceived as youthful because he's
presented that way). But, they'll gladly put aside good looks
and age if you have everything else she's been looking for.

With age comes many benefits. Experience, security,
understanding, and social status are all byproducts of
getting older.

If you want to attract younger women, forget about the age
difference and focus on the benefits that come from being
older. But your actions must speak louder than words.

You can't just talk about being more experienced and mature
than men her age. It has to be seen to be believed.

If you have to tell her, then you're not doing it right.

You have to start asking yourself, "What are the qualities
that make me attractive, despite my age?" And, honestly, if
I were you, I'd even drop that last part about your age.

Just ask yourself, why would anyone, regardless of how old
she is, want to be dating you?

I can promise you this: if you have attractive qualities
that make you desirable to women in general, then you
definitely have qualities that younger women will also find
attractive.

While the mindset of a woman does change as she gets older,
they're all still attracted to the fundamentals. Demonstrate
to everyone around you that you're the man they either want
to be, or the man they want to be with.

Up to a certain point, you want to present yourself as
youthfully masculine. Don't get an earring and dye your
hair blonde. Just take care of your body; eat right and
exercise.

Display healthiness, and you'll be associated with youthfulness.
Wear clothes that look good, and make you seem like you've
opened up a copy of GQ Magazine in the past year.

You should be doing that no matter how old you are, but if
you want to seem especially younger, you shouldn't be the
kind of guy who looks like he needs to relax at home after
a hard day of work.

Engage in strenuous physical activity. Hit the gym, go hiking
or ride a bike. Take dance classes. If you don't feel old,
you won't look old. Besides, younger women don't go for the
stay-at-home types. They're more likely to go for you if
you're bursting with energy.             

If you're clean-shaven or have a beard or a mustache, try
trading it in for the "haven't shaved in two days" stubble.

Studies have shown that women find this look attractive.

Again, it connotes a young, yet maturing appearance. It also
demonstrates a little rebelliousness, especially in older men.

Remember, it's all in service to the image she'll make up
in her head. In there, you need to seem youthful, energetic,
strong, experience, able to take care of her and satisfy
her. If you can conjure and cultivate the portrait of a
capable man, the age difference will have little meaning.

2. Your Mindset

What you project as your image has its roots in what you're
thinking right now. Who do you believe yourself to be?
What do you feel are the boundaries of your capabilities?

Let me ask you this: right now, do you feel like you can
easily pick up a desirable 25 year old? Do you feel that
you're at a disadvantage because of your age?             

Over the years, I've heard every excuse in the book, and I
can tell you that there are almost as many 25 year old
guys who don't think they can get a 25 year old girl, as
there are 45 year olds who think the same way.

It's not your age; it's your beliefs about your age that
hold you back. As I pointed out earlier, getting older has
its benefits.

But what if you were to truly believe that your age isn't
something to hide? What if you were proud of how old you
are?

Remember: It's not your age that's the issue; it's HERS
that might be the issue.               

What if she's too inexperienced and too naive?

You're the right age, but she has to prove to you that
she's wise beyond her years. Or, at the very least, willing
to learn from you.

For some guys, believing this will take some work. Changing
beliefs isn't the easiest thing in the world, especially
if there are a whole bunch of other beliefs tangled up in
them.

With patience and determination, however, you can start
to believe that you have an advantage over younger men.               

If you believe in yourself, possibilities open up.

The major factor here is confidence and self-assuredness.
I mean this in several ways. Not only does it mean that
you've got self-esteem and believe in your own self-worth,
but you're also fearless and will go after whatever it
is that you want.

That means you don't think twice about approaching a 20 or
30-something woman. Project the sense that a man of your
stature and confidence has gotten with younger women
before; this should look easy.             

You must exude the feeling that you've done this before,
and being with a younger woman is nothing out of the
ordinary. If you can truly grasp that and make it part of
your belief system, then you will project it to her.

It will make it that much easier for her to forget about
the age difference.

Being with a younger woman has to seem par for the course,
but you still want her to feel special. You're not going
after her because you need a younger woman. 

You're interested in her because she seems interesting as
a person. You just don't want her to feel that her age is
a big deal to you.

This kind of confidence comes from experience. It comes
from making a concerted effort to be comfortable in that
kind of situation.

If you're comfortable with women around your age, start
frequenting places with a slightly younger age bracket (eg
coffee shops), and start interacting slightly outside of
your comfort zone.

Work your way slowly, over the course of a few months, to
the age group you want.               

If you're 40, don't jump into a 20 year old's world without
experiencing some 30 year old and mid-late 20s women first.

Your mind and nervous system prefers gradual change, and

it's best to approach it that way if you want to acquire a
new set of permanent beliefs. 

3. Your Selection Criteria

I have a 55 year old friend of mine who lives in India.
Every Monday, he goes to an American karaoke bar and sings
a few tunes. He doesn't have the best voice in the world, but
it is certainly a powerful one.

After his first number, he buys a handful of people around
him a round of drinks. Over the course of a few weeks from
when he started, he's become the guy that everybody knows.

Even in India, a place far more conservative than our United
States (and the rest of the western world), he's been able
to pick up several women under thirty at that bar.

That's because he embodies confidence and makes his
presence felt. As a result, he has social status. At that bar,
he's near the top of the pecking order.             

It's a mindset that he has cultivated, and one that is
accurately sent out as his image. The two cannot be
separated.

No matter who you select, she's looking for some type of
demonstration of the pecking order. You're expected to be
at the top because you're older. Those at the top take
care of the ones underneath him.

Don't mistake this to mean you pay for everything.

It's not like you have to pay for her college tuition.

Just a demonstration is all that's required. It shouldn't
look like a demonstration, either.

My friend has found a place that, for him, works well.
He's able to demonstrate his authority and youthfulness
among all age groups.

I think you'll benefit in finding the same.

Some bars, coffee shops, and even something like night
classes, would have a varied age group.

Of course, it isn't necessary to go "somewhere."

If you're confident in yourself, you'll be able find
women anywhere. But, for the sake of practice, it's a
good idea to find place where you can become a regular
and befriend a few people (yes, even men) younger than
you are.

One more thing to consider is that there are some women
who are more likely to disregard the age gap than others.

In my experience, the more intelligent the woman, the more
likely mature the man she dates. It's not an inalterable
rule, obviously, but it's a good starting point to find
receptive girls. Also, the more "alternative" she is
(in the way she dresses and what she believes in), the
more likely she'll overlook the age difference.

A vegetarian, for example, has an alternative mindset.

Ask yourself, "Why am I seeking out a younger woman?" I
know, the real answer is because you and I both want a
smoking hot chick in our beds so we can say, "I've still
got it."

Besides that, find some other answers for yourself.

What are you looking for?

Come up with some good answers that ring true for you,
and seek those types of women out. If you have a clearer
goal, it's easier to attain.

It took me a long time to figure out how to date & attract
younger women... and how to make them feel that powerful
physical and emotional response called ATTRACTION...

I can't tell you how much I wish I could have known what
I teach when I was younger. It's taken me literally YEARS
to put all the pieces together, and I invite you to take
advantage of the time, effort, energy, and money I've
invested to discover, refine, and organize all of the step-by-
step techniques I've put together here:

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It will give you a SOLID foundation for thinking and
behaving like a guy who NATURALLY attracts women.

You know, there's nothing quite as exciting as seeing
a beautiful woman that you'd like to meet (esp the super hot
9s and 10s), then approaching her, starting a conversation,
and walking away with her number (or walking away with HER).

Question: Have you ever had an exotic dancer as a girlfriend?
I have... and I'm telling you, the feeling's OUT OF THIS
WORLD (it's something you must try AT LEAST once in your
lifetime)!

seducing and having a stripper/dancer (even if you
have no money and looks) as a girlfriend is every man's
fantasy. These women are experienced; EXTREMELY in tune
with their se.xuality and most important of all... they know
how to PLEASURE their man!

If you're at all curious of how certain guys end up DATING
and sleeping with these women, check this out (you'll
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Enjoy them materials buddy!

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

Simon H



Instant Dating Resources
Smart Central, Suite E-10-06
Plaza Mon't Kiara
PO Box 50480, KL
MY

Linda Kiani

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